Women Who Inspire Us: Liz Dawes OAM on Connor's Run — and Turning Unimaginable Loss Into Australia's Biggest Fight Against Childhood Brain Cancer

Liz Dawes OAM displays the kind of resilience we tend to mythologise: the parent who loses a child and turns unbearable grief into something universally redemptive. Dawes is the co-founder and CEO of the Robert Connor Dawes (RCD) Foundation, and the driving force behind Connor's Run — Australia's largest charity event dedicated to raising money for paediatric brain cancer.

Her son Connor was just seventeen — on the precipice of the rest of his life — when he was diagnosed with anaplastic ependymoma, an aggressive and rare form of malignant cancer. "Connor was a fascinating child — he was so bright," Dawes recalls. "Things just weren't hard for him; his brain was his future."

But in year 11, out of nowhere, that future started slipping. Connor's grades fell, his memory faltered, he was falling out of the boat during rowing training. Dawes and her husband took him back to the GP again and again. "He just became increasingly unwell in ways we couldn't really understand," Dawes says. "Some GPs never diagnose a brain tumour — it doesn't show up in blood."

The eighteen months that followed Connor's diagnosis saw him shuttled between Peter Mac, the Alfred and St Vincent's for radiation and chemotherapy over six-week stretches. "I used to say, Connor, you're like Humpty Dumpty — everyone's trying to put you back together again."

It was during six weeks of radiation that the seeds of what would become the RCD Foundation were sown. A five-year-old girl was on the same schedule, with her own father in tow, and Connor couldn't bear it. "He could not bear that this little girl had a brain tumour like him — it literally distressed him," Dawes says. "And I was numb to her. I was only worried about him." When Connor died in April 2013, that little girl was the reason the foundation's answer became children. "I thought Connor would want us to help kids," she says. "That's something I've never regretted." Weeks after the funeral, Connor's younger brother remembered something: Connor, who hated running, had once run home to the boat sheds on a whim, a few months after his diagnosis. "That was the genesis," Dawes says — and Connor's Run was born.

The foundation's structure was based on her son's initials — RCD (Robert Connor Dawes): Research, Care and Development. In the wake of his death, Dawes spent close to a year travelling the world, asking fundamental questions. "What is being done for kids with brain cancer in this country? Who's in charge? Who's setting the policy, the strategy?"

 

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What she found, eventually, was ANZCHOG — the Australian and New Zealand Children's Haematology Oncology Group. "All the nine children's cancer hospitals have a representative," she says. "Brain and spine — great." She's been engaged with them ever since, helping oversee the clinical trials they run. "We've helped double, quadruple" the number under way, she says. Money, she decided early, would never be spent just to feel good. "We're not going to cure brain cancer for $50,000," she says of that first run's takings. "I wanted to make sure that if people were handing us $50, $100, $1,000, it had to be impact."

The clearest example of that impact is the AIM Brain project. "There was a lovely man from St Jude's in the US, here for a meeting, and he loves cricket, so we took him to the MCG," she says. "At that lunch I said, what can we do? And he said, you have to bring methylation — it's a DNA analysis of children's tumours. They used to look through a microscope at a 2D image of the tumour. This methylation project is more like 3D." Without it, he told her, Australian kids risked being locked out of future clinical trials. Dawes's foundation drove the project for four years, with Carrie Bickmore's Beanies 4 Brain Cancer and the federal government funding alongside her, until it was fully accredited. "It's part of every child's standard of care now," she says. "It has changed maybe 30 to 40 percent of their treatment. Families know more what they're dealing with."

There's more in motion. "There is an mRNA vaccine that's been approved," Dawes says of a new trial for seventy Australian children with the poorest-prognosis brain tumours, work her foundation helped fund early in Queensland. "It's their own body's tissue, delivered in a similar way to the mRNA vaccines we all had — except this one is customised, using their own immune system. Is this going to be a cure for all? No. But will it help some, and will it extend life for some — and time is time."

The other important piece of the puzzle the RCD Foundation has helped unlock is getting Australia's nine children's hospitals to share data. "How do we get important information into a central place, de-identified, so you can compare images, compare their history?" she asks. "That will really help drive research." Three of the nine hospitals are already piloting it. "It's massively complicated. But how do you advance research when everything is held within the walls of the place the child is being treated?"

Ask Dawes what any of this has to do with grief, and she doesn't pretend the two have separated. "Every day I'm processing Connor's grief," she says. "I feel like it's a weather pattern. I'm going through a hard couple of days, or weeks, and I do tend to get myself refocused, re-energised. Being Connor's mom brought out the very best in me, and what we've achieved feels like the clearest manifestation of that," she says.

Held every September in Melbourne — this year on Sunday, September 13 — Connor's Run draws more than 5,000 people to walk, jog, dance or wheel their way through Bayside, with more than fifty families affected by a child's brain cancer diagnosis registered to take part for free. "These two weeks before Connor's Run, I always feel like it's my Christmas," Dawes says. "It brings out the best in people; I'm happy that we've given these families a vehicle to help celebrate their person."

What began as a single Sunday that raised $50,000 has become Dawes's life's work. She and the RCD Foundation have personally raised in the order of $22 million since 2013 — a figure she expects to tip past $23 million once this year's run is done.

Find out more about the Robert Connor Dawes Foundation and register for Connor's Run, held in Melbourne on Sunday, September 13.

Images: Supplied by the Robert Connor Dawes Foundation